Empathy: Helping your mother when she has blatantly refused to help herself.
It can be difficult and frustrating to watch someone you care about refuse to help themselves. However, there are a few things you can do to support your mother without forcing her to change. 1. Express your concerns: Schedule a time to speak to your mother, and express your concerns about her actions. Be compassionate and respectful, and let her know that you are coming from a place of love and concern. 2. Provide emotional support: Let your mother know that you are there for her and willing to listen. Often, people refuse to help themselves because they feel overwhelmed or alone. Offer to be a sounding board and encourage her to talk about her feelings. 3. Ask how you can help: Your mother may have specific reasons for not helping herself - financial difficulties, fear of judgment, or other barriers. Ask her how you can support her in overcoming those obstacles. 4. Offer practical support: Depending on your mother's situation, there may be practical ways to support he...